When you're in this position, 'it's helpful to have the top person set a rhythm for thrusting since they have more ability to tilt their hips back and forth,' says Sari Cooper, LCSW, a certified sex therapist and founder of Center for Love and Sex in NYC.Ī bonus of this position is that your face is very close to your partner's, giving you the chance to get extra intimate. It's important to note that your partner will need to sit close enough that you can reach their anus for penetration. Your partner will then sit in your lap, facing you, and wrap their legs around your back.
Sit with your knees bent out to the sides and the bottoms of your feet touching, much like a butterfly position in yoga.
